October 31, 2013
Category: Sexuality

There is nothing better than a good first kiss. Aside from the aforementioned goodness of the kiss, there's the added relief of knowing that you could kiss this person again and like it. On the flip side, a bad first kiss is not only a huge disappointment but ultimately a deal breaker. I'll always give someone a few more tries (because yes, sometimes angles matter and people have off days), but if after a few tries it's not working there's little hope for me sticking around. Some say you can fix a bad kisser, but I don't know that that's true. You can try to course correct, but unless you're willing to flat out say they're not a good kisser, they don't often times get the hint. There's also the theory that bad kissers are only bad kissers because they're not kissing the right people. Perhaps a bad kisser to you is an amazing to kisser to some. I dated someone who was objectively a very handsome man. I could not understand how this man could be nearly 40, this good looking, and a terrible kisser. I wondered if because he was so intimidatingly hot that no one had ever told him he was a bad kisser and he just went on unknowingly kissing badly with everyone. But maybe to someone else he was amazing. Lip syncing in the kissing sense is key, because when you do meet someone who's lips work perfectly with yours, life is good.

The The New York Times published a story recently about the science behind kissing. There are plenty of...

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May 20, 2013
Category: Sexuality

I thought it might get better. After a bit of a rough start, I tried to be hopeful that we would eventually sync up as we progressed to the good stuff, but sadly that sync up would never arrive: I was in the middle of one of the worst hook ups ever and I didn't know how to get out.

He was perfectly cute when I met him out at the bar, just a little less cute when he arrived at my apartment a few days later after a series of escalatingly flirty sexts. Maybe it was the fact that he was drunk, or trying to kick box with me when all I wanted to do was get off and go to sleep. Whatever it was, I knew I wanted it to end before it even began. But how do you excuse yourself from something so intimate? Is it better to power through and make the best of it or just bring everything to a full stop and ask them to leave?

We want to hear from you dear reader: tell about your hook ups from hell (and don't spare in the gory details). Let's all bask in the terrible afterglows together. While you're at it, let us know what you think is right when it comes to hook up etiquette when you're not into it.

April 29, 2013
Category: Sexuality

It can be pretty mind blowing when you sync up with someone your dating or hooking up with sexually. For all the variable that go into the relationship equation, when 2 bodies together equal great sex, I'd call that a big win. Everyone brings something different to the sexual table, whether that's giving good head, good rim jobs, or being one hell of a great kisser, and this is when we can take these superlative studs and learn from them. After all sexual exploration is all about experience and gaining knowledge about what you like/don't like and learning new techniques. I would say of all the reasons to have an open relationship, bringing home something new to your skill set is one of the least discussed. And it can do wonders for your sex life. Even as a singleton, when you find someone who's the best at what they do, it can be life changing. It had been a while since I had a great kisser in my life and recently dated someone that reminded me of how good it can be when lips works together to make magic.

But now I want to open the floor to all of you, think of the comments as a sales floor and sell us on your best sexual skill set is. Or tell us a tale of the best you've ever had below.

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April 24, 2013
Category: Sexuality
"Put a Finger In It" - and Other Thoughts on Anal Play

We’re big fans of furry funnyman Greg Scarnici’s ability always find the humor in taboo topics, and his latest comedy video, “Put a Finger In It,” is no exception. This hilarious ode to the art of, umm, shall we say, “digital” love had us rolling, and we think you’ll give it two big thumbs up, too.

Now, we know some of you guys, particularly those who prefer the top bunk, might find the idea of having someone pull up to your bumper somewhat of a touchy subject, but we’re curious: does the desire for anal stimulation when you're getting your rod worked on mean you might secretly be a closet bottom?

The answer, at least according to this article we found on Psychology Today’s website, is not necessarily. In fact, it just means you’re completely normal. Turns out people of all sexual persuasions—including 24% of straight men—enjoy the art of the backdoor finger bang every once in a while.

So go ahead, all you top dogs out there, embrace your inner bottom. Better yet, share your favorite techniques for getting into the dig in the comments section. We promise nobody will point fingers. Well, unless you want them to.

May 18, 2012
Category: Sexuality

I love giving head. Next to eating burritos and snuggling, it's probably one of my favorite things to do. But you know what? I'm not a huge fan of getting head. They're fine, and I've had a few really good ones, but it's just one of those things that doesn't do it for me. In the heat of the moment they can add to the fun of flipping and flopping power, but I guess I always want them to be more exciting then they are. Am I alone in this?

If I'm not alone in this, and you're not into it either, then where does that leave the ones who like to go down? I guess it's the same problem we run into if everyone is a bottom. In an ideal world we'd all be 100% versatile (just think about how much more we narrow the dating pool by not being positionally compatible). It always seems like getting head is the considered one of the greatest things in the world. Straight culture especially seems to laud the act with the highest of praise, but I can't help but wonder if I'm missing something.

Can we talk BJs? Let us know what you prefer, how you prefer it, and if sexual compatability has been an obstacle for you before.

April 30, 2012
Category: Sexuality

I have a friend who yells at me every time he smells me. He prefers I let my natural scent run free instead of wearing a scented deodorant. The problem is, I get pretty darn stinky when I don't wear it. But I get where he's coming from, as I too enjoy the nice natural scent of man. Apparently the straight world is getting in on the pheromone fun too. So let's open up the discussion, do you prefer your men fragrance free or like them synthetically scented?

I will say one thing, when it comes to licking pits, freshly washed is the only way to go. Whether it's deodorant in your mouth or the stank that sticks to your tongue, it makes for a mouthful of yuck.

December 16, 2011
Category: Sexuality

Here's some Friday frivolity for you: singer Johnny McGovern is dickamatized. In the singer's new song is funny enough, but the hot guys in mesh shorts are what really sell the video.

To put it simply, being dickmatized is when you stay with a guy simply because the sex is good. You're basically powerless to a stop going back to this person because when it to comes to sexy times, he knows what he's doing and then some. Whether you love his cock, the way he fucks, or his oh so perfect lips, you'll pretty much do anything to keep getting the good stuff. And as most of know, if you're dickmatized you will find almost any excuse to go back to this person even if they end up treating you like shit. There's only one way to break the spell, and that's to find someone who actually appreciates you and/or realizing your self worth - whichever comes first.

Have you ever been dickmatized? If so, let us know how you broke free!

November 16, 2011
Category: Sexuality
Bacon Lube

First there was bacconaise, then came bacon flavored vodka, and now the bacon gods have been kind (or disgusting) and created bacon lube. What started off as an April Fool's prank soon became a much in demand item, and the makers were left with no other choice than to go into production. And now this bacon flavored lubricant is taking piggy sex to a whole new level. As a bacon lover, I'm intrigued, but as a hater of flavored lubricants and condoms, I'm not sure I'm willing to give this a try.

What are your thoughts on bacon flavored sex? Any members willing to give this stuff a try and report back?

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Billy Kolber
September 22, 2011
Category: Sexuality

Recently, I brought you a lube recommendation, this week, a related recommendation for condoms. Our sexual drive is so strong, it's often hard to objectively evaluate the risk/reward ratio of unprotected sex, and many of us don't use condoms as often as we know we should. Sex has always been dangerous, but life is full of risks we take every day - many -- like texting and driving -- more reckless than not using a condom. As if we needed another reason to use them, Japanese researchers recently reported the emergence of a cephalosporin-resistant strain of gonorrhea, at the same time that the CDC announced an increasing resistance to cephalosporin antibiotics in US strains of the disease.  While gonorrhea is rarely fatal, the complications of living with the disease untreated are significant.

If a better condom would help you help you use one more often, I offer these two recommendations: For well-endowed guys, LifeStyles Kyng are an XL size condom that offer a better fit and less latex odor than the better-known Trojan Magnum (no difference between the blue and gold packaging). For daddies and hunters of normal size, the Japanese-manufactured Crownand Beyond Seven condoms are thin as possible, offering maximum sensation. Whatever condoms you use, I’ve linked to...

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July 3, 2011
Category: Relationships

Stop me if you heard this one before: You're on a date with a guy you're super attracted to. Everything's going well, the conversation's flowing, eye flirtations are at their peak level; it's clear where this night is heading. You go back to the house and get with the kissing and touching and...nothing. There's nothing there. No chemistry, no want, no interest. And you think to yourself, "What the hell is going on? I just had a great date with someone who 2 minutes ago I couldn't wait to get with the bone jumping and now that we're here it's not at what I had hoped for." What gives?

This is just another example of how seemingly impossible meeting the right guy can be. Because even though everything else is poppin', sexual chemistry can be your downfall. And it's not that either party is bad at what they're doing, it's just they there are different needs and desires that don't quite sync up. One wants a little more push, the other a little more pull. Or maybe they have a style of kissing that just doesn't jive with our lips. Or maybe it turns out you're both big ol' bottoms. My question for all of you out there is how should one remedy such a problem? After all, sexual compatibility isn't everything, but it's still a huge part of relationships.

It's been my experience that most of the time, real sexual chemistry can't be manufactured. If it's not there, it's usually not coming. However, it is possible, and I think smart given the stakes of finding a good man, to have an open and honest discussion about what you're looking for with your partner (be he new...

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